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Your Online, Abortion-Rights, Education Course. 

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How to Participate
In Sexual Activity That Is 
Disease-free and Avoids Pregnancy

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Some Basic Facts of Human Nature

Here's what the evidence tell us when we ask these two questions?
What is normal, human, sexual, biological behavior?  
What is the sexual-social context in which we live?   

l     The urge to orgasm is biological and compulsive.

l     The urge to orgasm is not going to go away.

l      Biological sexual energy is like a river, you can dam it up, but you can’t stop its flow.

l      Anti-social violence is primarily the product of sexually unfulfilled young adult males.

l      The sexual urge is an issue that must be dealt with.

l      Abstinence programs deal with only a small portion of the unmarried population.

l      Guilt, sexual and otherwise, is peddled abundantly in our society.

l      Guilt attracts punishment.

l      Guilt is a product of one’s attitude and belief about a behavior and not from the behavior, itself.

l      Since the arrival of AIDS, sexual intercourse can now be deadly.

l      Oral sex can easily transmit the herpes virus.

l      Some people are going to be controlled by their sexual urges and will take what they believe to be the necessary steps to fulfill that urge to regardless of the cost or consequences.

l      The biological nature of human beings makes us both social creatures and highly sensual beings.    Most humans find sensuality to be very pleasurable.   

l      Sensuality ranges from a mild touch of the hand between casual contacts to the ecstatic orgasmic experience of a lingam filled yoni between two people who are madly in love with each other.  

l      There is no clear dividing line between sensuality and sexuality.  

l      The intensity of orgasmic pleasure varies widely depending on the mindset, the physical setting, and the interpersonal circumstances.    If mind-altering substances are involved that drastically alters the experience.

l      In our present-day American society, advertisers use sex to sell everything (except sexual satisfaction).    Kid's also know that sex sells.   They see the adult role models.   Some of them are misusing their sexuality by using it to make them selves more acceptable to their peers.

l      Sexual fulfillment is possible without either sexual intercourse or oral sex.   (Some of you are asking, "How?"   Be patient.    This page answers your questions.)

l      For those not in committed relationships, particularly for the younger teenagers, there is a vast sexual hinterland between a cold shower and oral sex.   Behavior is presently mostly self taught or peer taught.   Behavior in this area is almost completely unstructured in the sense that role models and accurate and complete instructions and information about this aspect of life are conspicuous by their absence. 

This “sexual in between” (making out, petting, masturbation, and sex games that don't exchange genital body fluids)  also needs to be openly discussed.   Why?   Because this where those who are sexually active can find a way to obtain sexual fulfillment and,  at the same time,  avoiding both STDs  (Sexually Transmitted Diseases) and for unwanted pregnancies.

In the interest of providing physical, emotional, mental and sexual heath for unmarried peoples, we have conducted an in-depth study on the question, “How to Fulfill One’s Biological Sexual Needs and at the Same Time, Avoid Pregnancy and Sexually Transmitted Diseases.” As a result of years of work, we now have a thoroughly researched, well-developed, and fully functional program which, for those using it, is fulfilling the above objective.  We'll get to the details of our program in a moment.

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The Basic Facts Underlying Abortion

1)    Sexual intercourse is the one and only cause of unwanted pregnancies.

2)   Unwanted pregnancies are the one and only cause of abortions.  (with the exception of relatively rare medical emergencies)

3)    Human beings are not going to stop their sexual activity.  

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What Are Our Choices?

In order to drastically reduce the number of abortions, there appears to be only three, reasonable, self-honoring ways for an individual to eliminate unwanted pregnancies — 1) Use the non-existent, perfect contraceptive,  2)  Just Say "NO" to Sex,  or  3)  find and follow a method of achieving sexual gratification that avoids sexually transmitted disease and unwanted pregnancy.  

No Sex:  As a personal answer for some people under certain circumstances, saying no to sex is, indeed, an excellent answer; however, it is not even close to being an across-the-board, universal answer.   You're probably aware of the attitudes that the forced motherhood leaders have toward unmarried sex.     Just Say "NO" to Sex°  is their one and only answer to unmarried individuals.   It's also their one and only answer for stopping unwanted pregnancies and stopping abortions.

Given the rather limited circumstances under which it is applicable and its utter lack of success at stopping abortions, the “no sex” policy has proven to be a dismal failure.    Are people going to stop being sexual?   Of course not!   Then, is it not obvious that to apply "no sex" as the one and only solution to the abortion problem is about as realistic as proposing to eliminating cars in order to stopping traffic accidents?

Adoption:  Offering adoption as a solution to all unwanted pregnancies  is also an unrealistic fairytale.°   

The perfect contraceptive:   Unfortunately,  a foolproof contraceptive is not in our near future.   It is, however, the most practical  and most universally acceptable, long-term solution for significantly reducing the number of unwanted pregnancies and abortions.   In terms of priority for anti-choice leaders,  finding a foolproof contraceptive should be second only to saving  the 40,000  already born babies who are starving to death each day°  or dying of curable diseases.   Unfortunately it isn't.   Judging by their behavior, they don't care about already born, dead  babies,°  and they certainly are not in favor of  making sex safe.°    

Sexual Sanity -- Sexual Security -- Sexual Intimacy     Unless you have some magic answer that the rest of us have still not heard of,  finding  and practicing a method of achieving sexual gratification that avoids sexually transmitted disease and unwanted pregnancy is the only reasonable, self-honoring choice left for those who choose to engage in sexual activity.

Is that Possible?   Yes!   The Pro-Truth Team is offering  a serious contender for the position of  "The most practical, reasonable, logical, and functional answer to unwanted pregnancies."    For lack of a better term, we've labeled our process   S. S. I. which stands for "Sexual SanitySexual Security,  and Sexual Intimacy."   It's explained below on this page.

We don't claim to have the only answer, or even the best answer,  but at least we are moving dynamically and aggressively in the right direction.   If you have a comment to share with us or if you have a better answer, let's hear it.°  

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Sexual Sanity --  Sexual Security -- Sexual Intimacy   

S. S. I. is a way for people to be caring, loving, and physically intimate and, at the same time, be free of sexually transmitted diseases and avoid pregnancy.

For those who choose sexual abstinence, we encourage you to continue along your chosen path.   

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For those who are sexually active, the concept called S. S. I.  offers a self-honoring alternative to the  traditional methods of sexual gratification -- solitary masturbation or sexual intercourse with a partner.   S. S. I.  offers a practical, reasonable, logical, and functional way to engage in sexual activity that is disease-free and avoids pregnancy.   

The entire program is laid out in great detail in the books titled:   The Yoni Dance -- a three volume trilogy about life, love, romance, and sexual fulfillment.   For a Description, see the section below:  The Yoni Dance

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Temporarily Available FREE

Volume One Online:    

For a limited time, the Internet version of Volume One is available right now FREE  at:   www.joy101.org/yd-v1-intro.html°     

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Volumes One and Two In Printed Format:   

For a limited time, Volumes One and Two of The Yoni Dance, in physically printed book format, will be sent free of charge to all who choose to order them.    We are presently in the process of negotiating for sponsors to pay for printing and shipping.   To secure your copy, you can back order your books now.   Simply send  your name, and mailing address, to:

Free Book Offer 
The Life Center,  
For Phone Number, E-mail and/or 
Postal Address,
 See Our Contact Page  

 

Be sure to print your name and address clearly.    The books will be sent as soon as the printed versions are available.  At this time, orders are NOT being accepted via E-mail.

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Why FREE?   

The Social Answer:  

Because the books describe a very timely and socially needed alternative to the traditional sexual interactions for those who are not into sexual abstinence.   

Because the CLI Circle practices enhance sexual joy, reduces pain and suffering, and virtually eliminate unwanted pregnancies,  sexually transmitted diseases and abortions on the part of all who adhere to the program.   

Because the books will expand the S. S. I.  concept into a much broader audience.   

The Personal Answer:   

Because many who read Volume One and Two will want to buy the remaining volume.   

Because the author requires a way to get his books in front of the public.   

Because  by giving away several thousand copies, the S. S. I.  concept will become well know and the author will later sell additional copies of the books.

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You Can Help:   

For those so inclined to assist us  in reducing  abortion, we welcome your donations and your feedback.

For now, enjoy the online version of Volume One°   

If you'd like to send your comments, see the page titled:  Contact Us  ' 

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.The Yoni Dance.      ...

Are you looking for an intimate, romantic relationship?

Would you like to improve the one you already have?   

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Then read 

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The 
Yoni Dance

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by     
R. Robin Cote’

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A guidebook
 for

"Sexual Sanity, 
Sexual Security
   &  
Sexual Intimacy
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If you think 
God and sex don’t mix,
you’re in for a big surprise.

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The 
Y
oni Dance

 takes you on a journey into 
the
relationship between sex and inner spirituality.

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The 
Y
oni Dance

is a novel and an instruction 
manual in one fun and exciting book.

It’s a self-awareness story about 
love, life, romance, and the intimate love arts

 It’s a tale about the social phenomenon 
known as
Caring and Loving Intimacy Circles.

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Check Out 
The Y
oni Dance web site:

www.yonidance.net/site.html°  

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The Yoni Dance is a three-volume trilogy.

For a limited time, 

Volume one is available FREE  at:

   <www.joy101.org/yd-v1-intro.html>°   

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The Yoni Dance

      A Self-discovery Story
         
About Life, Love, Romance, 
              Sex
, Tantric Masturbation,
               Voyeurism, Exhibitionism,
                  And
the Ten Most
                      Basic Universal Laws

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Welcome to 
     the ultimate 
        "how to" book 
                about all those things
                     your parents 
                           never taught you.

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Here are just a few examples of the content:

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The Universal Law of Thought
The Universal Law of Allowing

The Universal Law of Intentional Creation,
The Seven Principles of Hermes, 
The Kaizen principle, 
The Three Most Basic Assumptions of Life -- 
                 Christian One-life-ism,
                Atheism, and Reincarnation,

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Sex Games,  Sex Toys
Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, 
Mutual Masturbation , 
Tantric sex, and Tantra mastery,
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How to Play

The Yoni Dance Game

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The Yoni Dance is a combined novel and an instruction manual which takes you on a consciousness-raising journey into love, personal relationships, sacred sex, and physical intimacy.   It's a very tasteful book, written for both male and female readers.   And The Yoni Dance, for the first time in print, brings public awareness to the rapidly growing social phenomenon commonly known as Caring and Loving Intimacy Circles.°   

The Yoni Dance books teach you how to create your own, private, two-person Caring and Loving Intimacy Circle.°        (Some couples invite others to participate with them, but most CLI Circles are intimate, private, and involve only two people.)

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The Yoni Dance  focuses of three types of relationships:  

1)  Your relationship to yourself and to life.

2)  Your relationship to your fellow human beings.

3)   Your relationship to joy, to pleasure, and to 
         the intimate love arts.

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Features and Benefits:

   Entertaining and Easy to Read

   Discover new Pathways for Connecting to 
    Potential 
  Partners

   Test the Compatible of Potential Romantic Partners

   Learn How to Create Healthy, Loving Relationships

   Learn How to Improve your Current Relationships

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For Abstinence-only Teachers:

To teachers who, by law, are gagged from answering students questions about sex,  (where  abstinence only programs are being taught) we offer this response to student's sexually related questions:

"As dumb as this may sound to you,  I am prohibited by law from answering  your question,  but here's where you can find some help.       www.joy101.org/yd-v1-intro.html"°  

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The Yoni Dance book, Volume One 
is Being offered free until further notice.

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To obtain your copy of the Yoni Dance, 
see the section above titled: 
Temporarily Available FREE  

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Closely Related Web Pages 

1)   Responsibility°  -- 

                                The Key to Resolving  the Unwanted Pregnancy Problem  

2)   "The Reasonables" --  

                               A Pro-choice Novel and Film Addressing the Moral Values
                               Issue and Explaining How to Keep Abortion Legal

3)   Just Say "NO" to Sex,°  --  

                              Another, Anti-abortion, Fairytale Farce

4)   Sexual:  Sanity / Security / Intimacy°  --  

                             How to Participate In Sexual Activity
                            That Is Disease-free and Avoids Pregnancy

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Choice 101 -- Your Online, Abortion-Rights, Education Course. 

The evidence overwhelmingly indicates that The only way to be pro-life is to be pro-choice.° 

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